A Thanksgiving Thought –

Liturgy from our Thanksgiving Worship

This was not from this week but last. Unfortunately, I did not get a picture of the beautiful final altarscape with the vessel completely returned to wholeness. We have been putting it together throughout our journey in Exodus and now that they have crossed the Jordan, it is completed.

Call to Worship – based on Psalm 22

Pastor: There are days God feels far away from us

People: God, my god, why have you forsaken me?

Pastor: There are days we wonder if God hears the groanings of our hearts.

People: God, why does it seem you are so far from me?

Pastor: There are times we may wonder if there is a God at all.

People: O God, I cry day and by night, but you are silent and I find no rest.

Pastor: Do not fear, beloved, God is as close as your breath. God is seeking the way of good in every moment. Trust in the Lord your God.

Invocation

 Creator, Sustainer, and Protector, make yourself known to us. Do not be far from us, but gather our tears and allay our fears. Let us know you in our hearts. Let us hear you cry out, “ Peace!” in our soul as Jesus did in the storm. Help us to still ourselves and take respite from the world long enough to remember that you are God.  AMEN

Preparing

Prayer of Transformation

Teilhard de Chardin offered the ideas that in all our dark moments, God is present. God is in the parting of the fibers of our being and penetrating the very marrow of our substance . . .

Stop.

Listen.

Absorb in the silence the active stillness of a God seeking to work in your heart. 

Moment of Stillness

AMEN

Response to Stillness –

May the movement of God within and through you not only work to heal you, but may it heal the whole of the world.

Pastoral Prayer

On this Thanksgiving Sunday, when Christians everywhere proclaim Christ is King, may we give thanks for the people in our lives:

Those who brought us to life,

Those who cared for us when we were young,

Our teachers,

Our mentors,

Our bosses,

Our partners,

Our friends.

Let us give thanks for those who make our days easier:

our mail delivery person,

the person who makes us food or coffee,

the bank tellers,

neighbors,

garage mechanics,

the grocery check out person,

and the bagger.

Let us give thanks for those who seek to make our lives healthier:

our doctors,

physical therapists,

chiropractors,

dentists,

cardiologists,

nurses,

physicians assistants,

mental health professionals,

and nutritionists.

Let us give thanks for those we forget to acknowledge who make life go smoother:

the road workers,

the tree trimmers,

the traffic directors,

the civil engineers,

water treatment staff,

electricians,

plumbers,

carpenters.

We are thankful for all the people who give of their time and talents to make this world a better place. God, may you continue to inspire them in their calling and let them know how their work is truly a ministry in the world.

We pray also this day for those who are feeling down on their luck and for whom giving thanks seems more like a joke than a possibility.  May you strengthen their reserves. May you move helpers into their lives. May you make level their path. May you give them concrete and palpable hope that there are those who see them and understand their need.

We pray also for those on our minds today. Hear as we lift their names to you:

(Have people speak the names of those who are on their heart)

We pray all of this in the name of Jesus, our King of Kings, and your son, who taught us to pray saying: 

& Lord’s Prayer

Prayer of Illumination –

O Lord, speak to our hearts.  Let your words move beyond our ears and take root in the deepest corners of our soul so that it might grow and transform our ways.  AMEN

Invitation to share –

Today, we are invited to not only put in our weekly offering, but to dedicate the pledges that have been coming in for weeks. We honor the thoughtful consideration that has gone into deciding how much to pledge to the mission and ministry of this gathered body.

As the plates are passed, please put any final pledges in the plate. We give not out of necessity, but out of desire; not out of confidence, but out of humility; not out of what is left over, but boldly from our first fruits. We give knowing that we together with each other and with God truly can change the world.

Prayer of Dedication

God of the Ages, receive today both our offerings for the day and the promise of tomorrow. Unify us in spirit. Unify us in ministry. Unify us in mission. May you receive our pledges and our gifts. May they show honor to you, and may they go to serve all of the world in your name and to your purpose.  AMEN


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Gravestone Blessing

I have been asked to bless a gravestone. The funeral was almost a year ago now. The family would like the “service” to be relatively brief.

Here is what I will offer. I hope that it might help you if you are asked for such a liturgy yourself. I had a hard time coming by one online, so perhaps this may inspire you.

The opening and the benediction are original pieces with the prayers coming from AI after I fed the entirety of the memorial liturgy into it to create the blessing.

Blessing of a Gravestone

WELCOME AND PURPOSE
We are here today to bless the headstone that marks the resting place of [Name]—wife, mother, grandmother, and friend.


We are here to again remember and give thanks for her life,
and to honor the grief and the loss that still sits in our hearts as a result of her death.


We come knowing time goes on,
and not wanting to forget her or let her be forgotten.


This is a day of marking this space and this place in her name.
This is a day to remember the love that she imparted and the life that she lived.


Throughout history, stones have been a way to mark the final resting places of those we love.
In fact, some say that the placing of rocks upon the graves of those we love marks a turning point in human evolution:
a point where emotion and connection overtook utility.


Over time, simple acts to mark a grave were enhanced with more formal commemorative markers—
meant not just for those who already knew the one who had died,
but also to proclaim who they were to the world for all time.


One of the earliest burials in our sacred story comes from Genesis 35,
where Jacob buries his wife Rachel and sets a stone to honor and remember her.
The scripture says:
So Rachel died, and she was buried on the way to Ephrath (that is, Bethlehem),
and Jacob set up a pillar at her grave. It is the pillar of Rachel’s tomb, which is there to this day.

And so today, we bless this stone which has been set in honor of our beloved [Name].


PRAYER
O God,
We pray for your presence in this place,
for your Spirit to rest upon this stone,
and for your love to surround all who gather here.

Bless this marker, O Holy One,
that it may stand as a witness to a life well-lived—
a life of beauty, of kindness, of devotion,
of gardens tended and homes made warm,
of dogs rescued and meals prepared,
of love poured out in quiet, steady ways.

Let this stone be a signpost of memory,
a place where grief is honored and love is rekindled.

May it speak not only of death,
but of the life that continues in those who remember,
and in the communion of saints that surrounds us still.

MOMENT OF REMEMBRANCE
Let us take a moment to be still—
to remember [Name]’s laughter, her labor, her love.
To recall the way she made a house a home,
the way she moved through the world with purpose and grace,
and the way her life continues to shape our own.


(Silence)


BLESSING OF THE STONE

Holy and Loving God,
by your mighty power you gave us life,
and in your love you have given us new life in Christ.
We now bless this stone,
set here in memory of [Name].

May it stand as a testimony to her life and legacy,
a place of peace for those who mourn,
and a reminder that nothing—not even death—can separate us from your love.

May all who pass by this place feel the warmth of her spirit,
the strength of her devotion,
and the beauty she cultivated in every corner of her life.

Benediction
May this gravestone stand as a reminder to all of [Name]’s love and life,
and may each of you be living stone, which also speaks of her to the world.
In her honor,

may you go and live life to the fullest,
enjoying nature, each other, and each day that you are blessed to continue to walk this earth.
May her memory live through you and may it continue to be a blessing to you.
Go with God’s blessing and peace. AMEN


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A Blessing for Your Journey

For those times when goodbyes are necessary, it is important to mark the occasion so that the community can both celebrate and grieve.

You are each a blessing.
We have been richer for your presence.
We are thankful for the time you have shared in this gathered body.
A part of us weeps at your absence,
but a greater part of us celebrates with you as you take this next step in life.

As we send you off, we offer you this blessing:

Go with our love in your hearts.
Go knowing you have made an impact here.
Go knowing you will always be a part of us.
Go with our blessings—

May God bless you and keep you as you reestablish your roots.
May you build community and find a new church home.
May you create new memories and be filled with joy
as you grow into your new life.
And as you are blessed, may you share that blessing
with all whom you meet.

We send you with love.
We send you with hope.
We send you with our support, if ever you need it.
May God watch over you,
and may this be a wonderful new adventure.

Amen.


You go with our blessing—and our love goes with you.

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An Easter Blessing / Devotional

I thought this was such a wonderful idea that I asked the deacon of my church if I could share it. She said, “of course!”

At each of our deacon meetings, we start with a devotional or simple prayer. She entwined the two by having us each choose an egg. Inside each egg was a delicious piece of chocolate or jelly beans and a tiny little scroll that she tied closed with a piece of the green grass.

On each of the small scrolls was a line of blessing that when read in any order created a beautiful prayer.

It didn’t matter if all the eggs were taken or only some. It didn’t matter who started or who ended. The prayer in the form of a blessing just continued to unfold.

What blessings can you think of:

May we . . . .

May God . . . .

May the world . . .

Prayer of Transformation

As I planned for Lent this year, I came by this beautiful prayer by Rabbi Jack Riemer, the Likrat Shabbat. I was so taken by the idea that all we have we need, we just have to choose to participate and use what we’ve been given, so for each week of Lent I altered the original slightly to reflect different aspects of where this might be true and used it throughout Lent, excluding Palm Sunday.

NOTE: I find this slight alteration of poems and prayers to be a very effective way to maintain the strand or a theme throughout a liturgical season without becoming too boring. I encourage you to try it and I thank Worship Design Studio creator, Marcia McFee, for teaching it to me.

This is the original by Rabbi Jack Riemer:

We cannot merely pray to you, O God,
     to end war;
For we know that You have made the world
     in a way
That man must find his own path to peace.
Within himself and with his neighbor.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,
     to end starvation;
For You have already given us the
     resources
With which to feed the entire world,
If we would only use them wisely.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,
     to root out prejudice;
For You have already given us eyes
With which to see the good in all men,
If we would only use them rightly.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,
     to end despair,
For You have already given us the power
To clear away slums and to give hope,
If we would only use our power justly.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,
     to end disease;
For You have already given us great minds
With which to search out cures and healing,
If we would only use them constructively.

Therefore we pray to You instead, O God,
For strength, determination and will power,
To do instead of just pray,
To become instead of merely to wish.”

Here are the alterations that I added for the subsequent weeks:

Week 2

We cannot merely pray to you, O God,

  to mend relationships that we have torn;

You have taught us forgiveness and you encouraged us to ask for forgiveness.

From there, we must work together.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to end violence;

We must choose to turn away and set down our weapons.

We must open our ears and our hearts

seeking a different path in difficult moments.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for equality and equity;

We have to be willing to make space

for equality and equity to exist.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for open hearts,

We too have to be willing to be transformed

and to listen as much as we talk. 

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for the restoration of the earth;

We too have to be willing to change our ways,

to take only what we need, to seek new and better ways,

and perhaps to limit our desires.

Therefore we pray to You instead, O God,

For ingenuity, creativity and willingness,

To do instead of just pray,

To become instead of merely to wish.”

 AMEN

Week 3

We cannot merely pray to you, O God,

  to end strife;

for we know that You have made the world

  in a way

that man must put down their weapons

and turn their spears into pruning hooks

and their swords into plowshares.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to end violence;

for You have already taught us the way of peace.

You have shown us the path of nonviolence

and forgiveness and yet we refuse to follow it consistently.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to extinguish hatred;

for You have already shown us that we are all siblings,

created in your holy and sacred hand.

You have led us on the path to righteousness,

even if we often veer and stray from the path

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to end disunity,

for You have called out that we should all be one.

You have encouraged our relationships

and even sent your son so that we might see what is possible.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to end poverty;

for You have already shown that poverty is a creation of mankind

and not of you.

Therefore we pray to You instead, O God,

for wisdom, clarity, and generous spirits

to do instead of just pray,

to become instead of merely to wish.”

AMEN 

Week 4

We cannot merely pray to you, O God,

  for all to be well;

For we know that You have invited us into co-creation

so that together we might work for peace.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for children to have safe housing and full bellies;

For we know that you have already given us the

  resources

with which to make this real

if we might only open our hands and our hearts.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to create a just world;

for you have sent your son to show us the way

and yet too often we ignore the path or wander off. 

Help us to find the way to fulfill your hope.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for the end of want,

for You have already given us the power

to create a more equitable society.

Inspire us to be more diligent in the work before us .

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  to bring an end to suffering;

for we must be willing to do the work necessary to help,

we must be willing to step in and offer help,

we have to be willing to stand up and against wherever the suffering originates.

Therefore we pray to You instead, O God,

For compassion, hope and courage,

To do instead of just pray,

To become instead of merely to wish.”

Week 5

We cannot merely pray to you, O God,

  for peace on earth;

We must be willing to work with you hand in hand.

We must be willing to decenter ourselves

and to work toward a common good.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for the care of our siblings;

we must open our hearts to hear their pain

and be willing to step in and step up on their behalf.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for kindness to prevail;

We each must take steps each day to make it so.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for love,

we need to practice love,

we need to grow in love,

and we need to learn to receive love.

We cannot merely pray to You, O God,

  for health;

we must participate in creating a healthy world,

in caring for one another,

and participate in our health and supporting the health of others .

Therefore we pray to You instead, O God,

For open minds, open hearts and a willingness to follow,

To do instead of just pray,

To become instead of merely to wish.”

More Lenten Prayers

Call to Worship
Pastor: In the tiredness of the day, Lord,
People: you are there.
Pastor: In the weakness of my soul, Lord,
People: you give me strength.
Pastor: In the chaos of the world, Lord,
People: you ground me and give me courage.
Pastor: You, O Lord, are our ever-present help. Let us rejoice and praise you.

Invocation
Holy One, Meet us here and give us insight to the world and to ourselves so that we can navigate our lives and interactions in a way pleasing to you and to the benefit of all. Help us find balance in the imbalance. Help us find calm in the storm. Be our anchor and our rudder. AMEN

Pastoral Prayer

God who created and cares for each one of us, 

We reach to you today to leave at your feet the prayers we hold that are too heavy to bear. Prayers of the hurting, the persecuted, the tired, and the tormented.

We seek your balm to help offer comfort to those who live too often in discomfort.

We seek your peace to soothe the agitated and anxious.

We seek your healing to bring heath and recovery to those who are in physical and mental pain.

Bring healing, peace, and your balm to all who need – those who are both known to us and unknown to us. Search our hearts for the names of those we know, who need you this day and inspire us to care for those whom you know and we may not.

May your grace pour upon all who are in need.

And now let us pray in the name of your son, Jesus Christ, who taught us to pray together saying:

The Lord’s Prayer

Unison Prayer of Illumination

God, Sometimes we trust our eyes and our mind too much.

Sometimes we let what we believe we know override what you know to be true.

Help us to set down our preconceived perceptions and release our understanding of the world so that your truth may be revealed.

Let us release our expectations so that you can show us your way.

Let us open our heart and hear today’s sacred text. AMEN

Invitation to share

Peter showed Jesus his trust by stepping out of the boat.  When do we step out of the boat?  When do we begin to let go of control? When do we let “Jesus take the wheel” as Carrie Underwood once sang? One place we can do that is through practicing our generosity. We can open our hands and our hearts and trust that God will meet us there. As you open your hands today to release your offering to God, ponder what you have now made room for.

Unison Prayer of Dedication

God of Grace and hope, Too often we give limitedly, fearful of what giving too much might mean for us.  Sometimes, we give just enough for people to notice so that we are seen as generous people. Today though, let us give what is right and good. Let us feel a bit of a pinch as we let go so that we can learn to trust and let us celebrate the fact that we are blessed to be able to give.  Accept all that we give and encourage us to give even more through service.  AMEN


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More Lenten Prayers

Call to Worship: (based on Psalm 46)

Pastor: God is our refuge and strength

People: Our ever-present help in times of trouble

Pastor: When the mountains shake and waters roar,

People: we ground ourselves in the hope of our creator.

Pastor: When nations are in an uproar and kingdoms totter,

People: we receive our strength and courage from the one who created all.

Pastor: Come let us find our sacred center as we worship God together.

Invocation

Holy One, We’re gathered here a little unbalanced. The world feels askew. We’re gathered here a little imbalanced.  We feel a little askew. Meet us here and give us insight so that we can navigate this world in a way pleasing to you and to the benefit of all.  AMEN

Pastoral Prayer

Holy One,

As we tear down the walls of our heart and stretch the limits of our compassion,

we seek to hold in our prayer those who we often overlook or ignore.

We pray for those who we have never seen: our neighbors far away.

We pray for those who are most different from us by language, culture, or faith.

We pray for those who we walk by daily, but perhaps do not notice – – –

the person who serves us coffee,

the one who rings us out at the grocery store or packs our groceries.

We pray for the bank teller and the telemarketer.

We pray for the farmer who seeded our dinner into the ground

and the truck driver who brought it near to us.

We pray for those who line our roads and empty our garbage cans.

We pray for the librarian and news broadcaster on the radio.

We pray for those who often go unseen – – –

the 911 dispatcher,

the night clerk at the 24 hour convenience store,

the school custodian,

the cleaning people in our office.

God, there are so many that escape our notice, 

but we know they do not go out of your vision or care.

May you continue to pour your love upon them 

and may you help us to stop and see and listen to their trouble or tragedy.

Let us remember our connection to the whole.

We also, O God, have those who we do know that we wish to lift up. Hear now their names:

<have people speak names aloud popcorn style>

Be with them in their time of need. Embrace them in your constant grace. Grant them the peace of recognizing your presence.

We pray all of this in the name of your son, Jesus Christ, who taught us to pray together saying:

The Lord’s Prayer that is used in your setting.

Unison Prayer of Dedication

Generous God, Take these gifts that have been gathered. Bless them and return them into a wanting world. May these financial gifts be just one way that we seek to co-create with you.  AMEN


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Lenten Prayers

Call to Worship  (based on Psalm 51 & 103)

Pastor:  We come to you, O Lord, imperfect, but hungry.

People: We trust in your steadfast love and take hope in your abundant mercy.

Pastor: We turn to you, O Lord, recognizing that too often we turn away.

People: We trust that indeed you are merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in compassion and lovingkindness.

Pastor: We desire, O Lord, your wisdom in our inmost heart.

People: We open ourselves to you.

Invocation

Creator, Meet us here. Meet us now. Walk with us on our Lenten Journey. Continue to create us and form us in your likeness. Let our very being act as an offering to you. AMEN

Unison Prayer of Blessing for Communion

Holy Spirit, we invite you here into our midst. Bless this bread and this juice that in receiving it, we might know you better.  In drinking and eating, we might see more clearly. In being filled, we might also become more hungry. AMEN

Unison Prayer of Thanksgiving for Communion

Unison Prayer of Thanksgiving: (DMA – shared)

Holy One, you accept us as we are. You invite us to your table. You make space for all. Your gracious love astounds us. It humbles us. We pray that we might live lives worthy of your generosity. Receive our thanksgiving and our praise.  AMEN


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Transfiguration Prayers

Invocation

Moutaintop God, Your glory astounds us. We are in awe of all that you have done. The child who came to us just weeks ago now takes his place between Moses and Elijah. Help us to bear the light and not look away. Help us to be the light. Let us take momentary refuge here so that we too are changed; and then push us back into the world and the work you set before us.  AMEN

Prayer of Illumination

Pastor: God is Holy, God is beyond what we can know, beyond what we can see, beyond what we can understand; and yet, we look, we listen, we try to comprehend.

People: God, let us see you if only but a glimpse. Let us hear you if only but a whisper. Let us understand you, if only in our heart.  AMEN


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Impermanence

Today in our mid-week meditation group we made prayer bracelets.

The process was gift and the reminder I found in prepping for the class was worthy.

A while ago, I found this book “A String and A Prayer” on my bookshelf and began reading it in preparation for this class. I used some of the prayers in the back as our opening and shared some of its insights during our class:

-The word bead is an offshoot from its Old English origin “bede” which means prayer.

-In Sanskrit the name of a pray bead chain is called a mala.

-That the practice of putting together prayer beads can be a spiritually significant as the practice of praying with them.

-It is said the the Desert Mothers and Fathers would carry a specified number of beads in their pockets with they would drop to the earth throughout the course of their day as they prayed.

And then finally –

-All prayer bead jewelry will eventually fall apart.

This final one sounds depressing, but it is real. It perhaps struck me especially funny because at our our last confirmation meeting when we created the Protestant equivalent to prayer bead rosaries (which by the way are named such because the beads were apparently made out of crushed rose petals) we worked very hard at crimping and trying to secure our creations so that they would be indestructible. Impermanence is not something that we like to think about much. In Christianity, with the exception of Ash Wednesday and perhaps Good Friday, we have a tendency to focus on the eternal and ever-lasting, brushing aside the reality that life here is guaranteed to end. Perhaps though, the reality of our relatively short mortals lives and the reality of our impermanence might be a gift that might allow us to more fully stop and take in the world around us, celebrating the beauty and appreciating the relationships. Recognizing our impermanence may not be a morbid thought that freezes us in fear, but instead a freeing realization that allows us to better notice the many blessings that abound.

Whether or not you choose to create a prayer bracelet yourself, I hope that you might ponder their impermanence and yours as well. Your life may be all the richer having done so.


A Prayer of Gratitude for the Limitedness of our Lives

Holy One,

We are thankful for this time you have granted us on earth. Let us not waste it, nor take it for granted. Let us have clear view of its limits that we might be all the more thankful for the time we have. Grant us the insight that each breath we take is a blessing.

And when at last our time is short and we can feel the true fragility of life coming our way, let us be able to say that we were thankful for the opportunity, that we were thankful for the friends that we met, and that we were thankful for the time we had.

We give you thanks for each breath, each moment, and for our very life however long or short it might be. AMEN


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